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I
Don't Know If My Rights Were Violated
Remember
that you and your child, from the moment of birth, are a FAMILY,
and as such as deserving of protection under many national
and international laws and treaties. See the Coercion
Checklist for more details on the abuses perpetrated on
new mothers in order to obtain their babies for brokering.
And see the preliminary
report of the UN for their concerns regarding selling
babies, which fuels the modern adoption industry.
In
1948, Canada and the United States signed the The
Universal Declaration of Human Rights which states:
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ARTICLE 25:
" (1) Everyone has the right to a standard of living
ADEQUATE FOR THE HEALTH AND WELL-BEING of himself and of
his FAMILY, including food, clothing, housing and medical
care and necessary social services, and the right to security
in the event of unemployment, sickness, disability, widowhood,
old age or other lack of livelihood in circumstances beyond
his control.
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(2) Motherhood and childhood are entitled to special care
and assistance. All children, whether born in or out of
wedlock, shall enjoy the same social protection."
The
United Nations Convention
on the Rights of the Child (1989) protec
"
Article 9 - 1. States Parties shall ensure that a child
shall not be separated from his or her parents against their
will, except when competent authorities subject to judicial
review determine, in accordance with applicable law and
procedures, that such separation is necessary for the best
interests of the child."
The
right of children not to be traded as marketable commodities
is outlined in the Declaration
of the Rights of the Child, signed in 1959:
"Principle 9 The child shall be protected
against all forms of neglect, cruelty and exploitation.
He shall not be the subject of traffic, in any form."

Why
Would Anyone have Violated My Rights?
Why?
Because there was money to be made in it, providing parenthood
to infertile couples and keeping mothers from requiring welfare!
Then there was the added bonus of expressing societal disapproval
for unwed motherhood.
"To
the Province generally the great advantage and economy of
the Adoption Act can be realized when it is stated
that many of the children before their adoption were costing
five and six dollars a week for maintenance." - 35th
Report of the Superintendent of Neglected and Dependent
Children (Ontario, 1928)
"...
the tendency growing out of the demand for babies is to
regard unmarried mothers as breeding machines...(by people
intent) upon securing babies for quick adoptions."
- - National Association of Social Workers.
"Because
there are many more married couples wanting to adopt newborn
white babies than there are babies, it may almost be said
that they rather than out of wedlock babies are a social
problem. (Sometimes social workers in adoption agencies
have facetiously suggested setting up social provisions
for more 'babybreeding'.)" - National Association of
Social Workers.
".
. . babies born out of wedlock [are] no longer considered
a social problem . . . white, physically healthy babies
are considered by many to be a social boon . . . "
(i.e. a valuable commodity..). - National Association of
Social Workers.
".
. . society has seemed more interested in punishing the
unwed mother and her illegitimate child than in understanding
the social, economic, and psychological forces which have
placed them in a deviant social position." The Unwed
Mother, by Robert W. Roberts.

Why
Does a Complaint to the United Nations Matter?
The
UN (United Nations) is an independent international body with
various offices around the world monitoring human rights (the
Geneva office) as well as for other things such as a neutral
place for countries to discuss various matters (that is the
New York office). It is financed by most countries in the
world. It has no boundaries as such.
You
may have complained to everyone in Canada - but that does
not mean you have complained to the UN. The UN has a special
office in Geneva, Switzerland just for Human Rights which
they monitor and report back to the International community.
They bring the violations of humans to the country's notice,
demand they do something and report world-wide about it. It
is useful for embarrassing government into action. The UN
reports as to whether action has been taken or not to the
world-wide community. Although the UN cannot make a government
do anything, they do have the authority to report on them
and demand action.
Canada
wants people to believe that it is in the forefront of human
rights. It is part of the Canadian psyche to think that. Anything
that challenges that is an embarrassment to the government
which they cannot sweep away.
The
UN's business is human rights. Any abuse of those rights is
their business. If you were denied your legal rights (ie denied
a lawyer) or abused (physically or verbally), then your rights
were violated. It is the UN's business to report these violations
both to the country where they occurred and to the international
community who will put pressure on that government to sort
out their house.

Why
Go to the United Nations?
Because
no-one else here in Canada or the United States has listened
to us!
First
of all, the UN listens.
"That,
for me, was the best thing ever. Someone BELIEVED me! It
was the acknowledgement that our treatment was criminal
and that we did not deserve to be treated in this manner."
- Catherine H.
Secondly,
the UN is FREE!! That is a big bonus for anyone.
Thirdly,
the UN moves much faster than the Canadian justice system.
"They
responded to my complaint within 8 hours of receiving it."
Fourthly,
the UN publishes their reports internationally and by committee.
Their reports go to every country in the world. Even the Canadian
media can't do that (but they do pick up on the reports that
do come out - just look at the latest one).
Fifthly,
the UN MAKES the government listen. The government might
be able to ignore a few of us - but it is more difficult when
the UN tells the world that they have ignored thousands, even
millions. No government wants this sort of embarrassment -
especially the Canadian one that wants to promote the idea
that Canada cares about human rights. A report about violence
to women by the state is the last thing they want.

How
Do I File a Complaint?
You
can report your own case, as a parent who was defrauded and
lost a child to adoption (not necessarily to black market
adoption), or as the child who was unjustifiably taken for
adoption (whether or not money changed hands, but do indicate
amounts paid if known), or any other case you know of.
Whether
you lost your child last year or in 1948, the U.N. will still
take a look at your case.
- You
can either use the the UN
form to send in the complaint, or you can just write
out your own complaint using the guidelines
below. Don't worry if you cannot remember everything
- just write down as much as you can.
- Please
also include any copies of any documents that support your
case. That will help.
- If
you are sending your complaint by e-mail, please send it
in Word Format as an attachment - or it will not be accepted.
- Hard
copies sent by snail mail are also acceptable.Make sure
you keep a copy for yourself.

If you
don't wish to use the form
from the UN, here is a guide to the details that they
wish to know about:
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Guidelines
for UN Complaint
- Details
of the Incident - including country, state or
province, place(s), date(s), any organisation that
is involved including:
Adoption agencies, government agencies,
hospitals, etc.,
People (names if possible)
Addresses (if possible)
- Was
there was more than one victim? and their details
if possible (such as name, M/F, age or DOB, nationalities)
- Explain
what the violation was. Explain ALL of them if
there was more than one. See the Coercion
Checklist for more details on the abuses perpetrated
on new mothers in order to obtain their babies for
brokering.
- Steps
Taken by Victim - Indicate if complaints have
been made or filed, when, by whom and which government
authorities (ie.- police, court, etc). (Note: not
many of us have been made aware of any complaint mechanism
we could use. Those of us who have complained have
had our complaints dismissed out-of-hand. As well,
loss of our children was so traumatic for us that
we repress all memories of coercion/fraud/abuse until
reunion. And last of all, society often told tells
us that "we deserve it" and that "we
/chose/ adoption" even when only one option (adoption)
was ever given to us or when we were pressured (coerced)
into "choosing" it).
Tell of any other steps taken.
Did authorities deal with the complaint
or ignore it?
What was the outcome?
- Your
Details - First and Last name, whether you are
an individual or a spokesperson for an organisation.
If you are acting as a spokesperson for an organisation,
is it government or non-government.
- Contact
number and/or address (including country and area
code)
Fax, Telephone, E-mail.
- State
if you want your identity to be kept confidential.
- Date
you are submitting the form (or information) and
Signature
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Please
send everything to this address:
Email
your complaint to:
ATTN:
Ms Mara Steccazzini, msteccazzini@ohchr.org
SUBJECT: Sale of Children for Adoption in Canada
OR
Send a hard copy of your complaint to:
ATTN:
Ms Mara Steccazzini
Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights
United Nations
OHCHR-UNOG
8-14 Avenue de la Paix
1211 Geneva 10, Switzerland
RE: Sale of Children for Adoption in Canada
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FAQ
About the U.N. Complaint Process:
Question:
The adoption was private through a lawyer, not through a government
agency. Can i still file a complaint?
Answer:
It does not matter who handled the adoption or where it took
place. ALL adoption complaints are covered by the UN - whether
they are provincial OR international.

THE
UNITED NATIONS IS LISTENING!!
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From
http://www.unhchr.ch/children/documents.htm:
COMMISSION
ON HUMAN RIGHTS
Fifty-ninth session
Item 13 of the provisional agenda
RIGHTS
OF THE CHILD
Report submitted by Mr. Juan Miguel Petit, Special Rapporteur
on the sale of children, child prostitution and child
pornography in accordance with Commission on Human Rights
resolution 2002/92
110.
During the course of 2002, the Special Rapporteur
received many complaints relating to allegedly fraudulent
adoption practices. Where such practices have
the effect that the child becomes the object of a
commercial transaction, the Special Rapporteur, like
his predecessor, considers that such cases fall within
the sale element of his mandate.
" The
Special Rapporteur was shocked to learn of the plethora
of human rights abuses which appear to permeate
the adoption systems of many countries. ...
Regrettably, in many cases the emphasis has changed
from the desire to provide a needy child with a home,
to that of providing needy parents with a child.
"
As a result, a whole industry has grown, generating
millions of dollars of revenue each year, seeking
babies for adoption and charging prospective parents
enormous fees to process the paperwork. ...The Special
Rapporteur was alarmed to hear of certain practices
also allegedly occurring within developed countries,
including the use of fraud and coercion to persuade
single mothers to give up their children.
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