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Supporting People Separated By Adoption


Support for natural mothers, adoptees, and other affected family members.
 
Feature Articles:
Why "Birthmother" Means "Breeder"
Biased Adoption Language

A Call to Natural Mothers

Were You Coerced?
Adoption - "Not by Choice"
Our Stories: Across Canada
What They Knew and Didn't Tell Us
Stillborn or Stolen??
Adoptees Speak Out
Search & Reunion Registry
"The Open Adoption Experiment"
Open Adoption? Modern-Day Coercion
Infant adoption: Big Business
 

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The term "birthmother" is used on this website for search engine purposes only. The word "birth mother" is a derogatory, degrading, and inhumane term, essentially meaning breeder or incubator. Origins Canada does NOT condone its use as a term for mothers separated from their children by adoption.

"Natural mother" was the term commonly in use until the adoption industry created terms like "birth mother" to tell us that we are no longer mothers. Natural mothers are more than this. We never signed away our love or our innate motherhood.

Words like "birth mother" give the impression that people can become "ex" family. You can have an ex-boyfriend, but you can never have an ex-child or become an ex-mother.

 
No Longer Children, Adult Adoptees Speak Out


     This section was written specifically by adults who were adopted. Like our natural parents, we have also been silenced by the adoption industry. Many of us have found it difficult to have our feelings recognized by society in general. In adoption, we have a myriad of feelings associated with being separated from our families: from anger, to sorrow, to confusion, the range leaves little in-between. We each want to be heard, we each want to have recognized that this loss in fact is very real. Wherever we are on our own journeys, our need to be heard and respected and receive support will always be important. In finding our families and reclaiming our identities, and in simply finding our own truths, we are all on our own paths. But we share a larger path as adopted adults, a common path of grief and loss that each of us is trying to survive. - Anne Patterson, (also see Adoptees Speak Out full introduction by Anne)


Some additional articles on adoption quoting adoptees:

 

Note: The terms "adopted child" and "adopted children" are used on this website for search engine purposes. Origins Canada recognizes that people who were adopted grow up and become adults. As adults, persons who were adopted must not be denied the rights other adults have.

 

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